Velcro or Laces: Which is better for your child?

• Posted on 24 April 2025
• By Gracie Cummins
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Velcro vs. Laces: Which Is Better for Kids?

As a parent, picking the right pair of shoes for your child isn't just about cute colors or fun characters (though those are always a bonus!). One of the biggest questions we hear in-store is: “Should I go with velcro or laces?”

It might seem like a small detail, but the closure style can actually make a big difference in your child’s comfort, independence, and development. So, let’s break it down.

The Case for Velcro Shoes

Velcro shoes are a favorite among parents—and for good reason.

Pros:

• Easy On, Easy Off: Even toddlers can manage them. Perfect for preschool mornings when you're racing against the clock.

• Promotes Independence: Kids feel accomplished when they can put on their own shoes without help.

• Secure Fit: A properly fastened velcro strap can offer solid support throughout the day.

• Quick Fix: Teachers and daycare workers love them because they’re easy to adjust on the go.

Cons:

• Limited Lifespan: Velcro can wear out faster, especially if your kid is always kicking their shoes off.

• Less “Grown-Up” Appeal: As kids get older (usually around 6-8), they may want something that feels more mature—like laces.

The Case for Lace-Up Shoes

Lace-up shoes are often seen as a milestone—just like tying a tie or riding a bike.

Pros:

• Custom Fit: Laces allow for better adjustability, especially for kids with wide or narrow feet.

• Developmental Benefit: Learning to tie laces improves hand-eye coordination and fine motor skills.

• Better for Active Play: Some sports shoes and sneakers with laces offer more ankle support and a snugger fit for running, jumping, and climbing.

Cons:

• Tricky for Little Hands: Kids usually aren’t ready to tie laces confidently until around age 5–7.

• Trips & Tumbles: Untied laces are a safety hazard—especially on the playground.

So... Which Should You Choose?

Here’s a general guideline based on age and activity:

1–4 Velcro Easy for little hands and daycare-friendly
5–6 Velcro or Lace Transition age—consider their motor skills
7+ Lace Good age for learning to tie and feeling grown-up

Of course, every kid is different! Some may love the challenge of laces at 5, while others prefer the independence of velcro at 8. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer—but there is a perfect pair out there for every child.

Shop Smart with Us

At SoleMates, we carry a wide range of kids’ shoes in both velcro and lace-up styles—from first-walker shoes to school shoes and activewear. Our team is always here to help you find the right fit for your little one’s feet and stage of life.